Wednesday, August 26, 2009

My sleeper

Remember my post about my little sleeper? Do you remember who I talked about how once we lay him down not one peep is uttered? Well my friends I am not eating my words but it is something much better then that. Tonight for the first time we had a babysitter put Wesley and Liam to bed. On 2 occasions My sister and my Mom did the honor but in the (almost) 9 months since we have been home we have always put Liam to bed. If we leave the boys with a babysitter we put Liam to bed first and then leave. Not tonight my friend. NO sir we left at 4:30. When we got home at 8:30 expecting to have 2 sleepers we were informed that Liam cried when he was put to bed, and actually continued to cry even after bottle bribery(something I don't do:). She said that Liam was not asleep. I squealed with delight(yes I squealed). I thanked her payed her more than I should have I am sure and quickly went in my babies room. When I went in there he stayed laying down which left me wondering if maybe he had finally fell asleep. After making "a little noise" I saw Liam peering at me in the dark. I said "Hi baby Mommy is home." To which he literally giggled and leaped to a standing position and proceeded to jump up and down in his crib. I rocked him snuggled him and laid him in his bed and haven't heard a peep since! He is quiet at night because he is happy...NOT some weird over analyzed reason I made up to freak myself out!
WE ARE ONE HAPPY FAMILY

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

ADVICE PLEASE!!

Here is my dilemma...Ever since my little brown bear has become the expert walker/runner/mr. independent...a new set of hmmm issues have come up. You see he umm well he kind of hmmm....I'll just say it He HITS, PUSHES, THROWS things and well a few times he has bitten. I don't know if the walking and new since of Independence has brought this on or if they just happened to happen around the same time. Of course being over analytical I have worried that it is some sort of attachment/aggression issue coming out. Although I have already had 1 boy we surprisingly did not deal with this issue. We had other issues...but not ones so aggressive in nature. The hitting and throwing usually if not always revolve around a fit or him being forced to do something he does not want to do. Such as hug his very (overly) affectionate older brother. Or if he has thrown a toy and I take it away he proceeds to run/toddle around the room hitting everything in sight including me if I am close enough. It really hurts my feelings and I KNOW I should not take it personally but I do and I need some tips. I need tips on how to handle his aggression. I need tips on discipline and how I should help teach him his behavior is inappropriate without feeding the aggression. Help!

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

your gonna hate me for this

So your gonna think I am totally ridiculous and maybe you'll even roll your eyes...I WOULD if I was reading what I am about to say on one of your blogs.... Let me set this up for you... Liam is an amazing sleeper. Amazing or should I say a little too amazing. When I put him down at 7:00 that is it no more Liam until 7:00, 8:00, or even 8:30 the next morning. Totally normal and fabulous right? Well here is my ahhhem..issue. He never wakes and cries...EVER...So he goes for what 12 hours without a peep. I appreciate it I do..I love LOVE MY SLEEP. But I love my baby more and there are times that I wish I could hear even a little whimper letting me know he needs mommy...A little rocking, snuggling, a back rub anything. But no he falls into a deep slumber and there he stays until the morning... I know I know count my blessings right. But there is something so precious about the OCCASIONAL midnight 'meeting' with your little one.